SemperFidelis wrote:
(and torn-if you are not Catholic {Im not sure} )
I'm not sure either.
Certainly, here in Ireland, where I live, I am a Catholic, a practicing Catholic, no different from most practicing Catholics here, in my experience, but on this messageboard I have been told several times that I am not a Catholic, or that I'm not a good Catholic, or not a proper Catholic, etc, etc, etc.
What they mean is that I am not a narrow-minded Catholic who believes that virtually all non-Catholics, along with liberal Catholics, are on the road to hell. That's not Catholic teaching any longer (if it ever was) and definitely not since Vatican II. I don't believe the Catholic Church has always been right about everything, and there are many Catholics who agree with me. That doesn't mean we cannot be Catholics.
You seem very anxious about my salvation, jac's salvation, and probably the salvation of many of your friends and possibly family. I do not have those anxieties. I have a lot of faith and trust in God's love and mercy.
It's interesting that you used the word 'open'. I am very open. I wish more people on this board were more open to having the faith and trust that I have in God's love and mercy, instead of being so uptight and anxious, which I regard as a mental disorder rather than some sort of super-Catholicism which they seem to think it is. When you trust in God's love, and learn to be guided by God's love, you can relax, and enjoy the life God has given you.
There is no need to worry about other people's salvation, they are God's children, He will look after them, just as He is looking after you. He is our father, more loving than any father. When you realise that, you can see God working not just in your own life, but in other people's lives too, whether they are Catholic or not. You can see God's love in other people, whether they are Catholic or not.
Everyone has their own path to follow. What may seem the right path for you, however true you may believe it to be, may not necessarily be the right path for someone else. We all have different spiritual lessons to learn, and different ways of learning, different ways of developing, so it does no good to try and insist that the path you are on is the "one true" path for everyone.
For example, suppose a drug addict, with no previous religious belief, discovered a religion such as Buddhism or Christianity (non-Catholic) which transformed his life (as sometimes happens), he would be on the right path for him at that particular time, it would be a very positive development in his life. It would therefore be wrong for a dogmatic Catholic to insist that the former drug-addict is still on the "wrong" path, and to be negative about the very thing that has greatly helped him. We have to see the good in things that have good in them, and not be blinded by dogma. That is why I am a big fan of Vatican II.
I'm not blinded by dogma. If that makes some narrow-minded unenlightened Catholics think I'm a lesser Catholic than they are, so be it. That's their problem, not mine. I hope and pray that they will see the light, and relax, and enjoy life, and share the goodness of life with people of all kinds, of all faiths, aware that we are all in the same boat, and understand what it means to love, to love God, to love people, whom God created, to love people without creating barriers which distance and seperate people, without creating the barrier of a "holier-than-thou, "we-are-the-chosen-people" arrogant attitude towards other people, which - however well-intentioned that attitude may seem - is a big turn-off.
God loves other people as much as He loves you. If He is looking after you, trust that He is looking after other people too. He is not some sort of unsympathetic narrow-minded authoritarian ogre, without understanding, eager to punish people at the slightest opportunity, such as for not seeing things exactly the way "super-Catholics" see things. Relax. God loves us all - including jac, and me.