TP wrote:
Greetings,
This morning we had a school mass. We tend to have music from a children's hymnal which is very easy, but to adults it would be very trite. The little kids love to sing the music and it is very loud. They were smiling.
Then I looked back and the Middle schools students were all arms crossed and NOT singing as all. I began to think about the dimensions of mass: What was being communicated.
Mass was Seen as a CHILD thing, geared to children rather than an adult thing. Middle school students were separating themselves with the childish and striving for the adults. Since Mass is for little kids(as shown by the music), they would not get involved.
If we did an adult, more serious, reverent mass. Perhaps they would see Mass as an adult thing. They would be bored as children, but then strive for mass as an adult. In the end when they were grown they would be adults at Mass, rather than Adults who see mass as a thing to bring their kids.
Just some thoughts.
peace
I'd be curious to see the body language of those same children at a regular adult mass. Maybe I'm a cynic, but I'd bet you'd still catch a lot of middle school students not too keen on participating - at least that's the way I was at that age. It was an age thing, not a content thing. So maybe it's worth considering if the songs etc. were really beneath the middle schoolers, or if their attitude would be like that no matter what.
Also, I'm wondering if everyone's talking about the same thing here. I get the impression that TP is referring to a special Mass that was specifically for the school children - not something where the children left mass.
All 3 churches I attend (I have my parish, and then the ones I occasionalyl visit) have schools. They will occasionally have a school mass for the feast days, for Catholic School's week, or to kick off the school year etc. At these masses, adults are welcome, but the majority of the congregation is made up of the school children. I personally enjoy the simple music. And while I occasionally get bored listening to the homilies that are addressed to the kids, I don't mind. After all, usually the priest considers his audience when making up his homily - so why shouldn't it be more kid-friendly when the congregation is mostly kids. We're talking about special masses, not every sunday. And I'm assuming that we're also not talking about liturgical abuses.
I appreciate what TP is saying though because in trying to make the mass "kid-friendly," whoever planned it may have set the bar too low or maybe it was geared only to the young ones and the older children got left out. And I agree with his insight on the inspiration that a reverent mass can provide to children. I just don't think that every chidren's mass is necessarily a bad idea.