GKC wrote:
Generally, though, you seem to be describing a book that differs from my memory. Which is over 50 years aged now. I would have to run over it more, to disagree more, and I won't. Though, one thing recalled is that Lolita, at 12, wasn't a virgin when H.H. met her.
We, it's been about 20 years for me. If it hadn't been assigned reading in college, I probably never would have read. The interpretation I provided, that it was kind of a conservative, moralistic tale about the corruption of modern morals, is what I wrote in my paper on it. The professor liked my interpretation anyway.
Well, as you note, Humbert is not a very reliable narrator. His version of events is very self serving. I seem to remember that there was a degree of ambiguity both about 'Lolita's (not her real name as I'm sure you remember, that is just what Humbert called her) real age and her level of sexual experience prior to meeting Humbert. It may be that he told himself that she must have already been experienced as a way to alleviating some of his guilt for taking her innocence and robbing her of a normal childhood.
One thing I do remember vividly is the ending, where Humbert murders Quilty, who had abducted Lolita from the hospital and tried to force her to appear in a pornographic film, and he then he allows himself to be arrested for the crime because he has come to regret his actions, believing that he had deprived Delores (her real name) of a normal life and had essentially ruined her.
It's definitely a cautionary tale, the reader isn't expected to find Humbert sympathetic or think that there was nothing wrong with what he did. I've even heard some people say that they found it 'preachy' because the way everything goes wrong for both characters it was like Nabakov was trying to beat the reader over the head with his message 'what Humbert did is bad, he's a bad, bad man.'