Google your Diocese and see what is available on their website. Your wife being Jewish (and I will assume unbaptized) is one thing that makes it unwise for anyone here to give "generic" advice.
A couple of books that I would suggest are:http://www.amazon.com/Annulment-Wedding ... 416&sr=8-1
The above is available in an e-book format for Kindle.http://www.amazon.com/Annulments-And-Th ... 352&sr=8-1
Here are some Diocese websites with FAQs about the process:http://www.austindiocese.org/dept/tribunal/faqs.phphttp://www.dioceseoflacrosse.com/minist ... lments.htm